Conceive Naturally

Conception can be many things…. Simple, easy, natural, radiant, and exciting. Or…cause of anxiety, fear, questions about your health or your ability to conceive… Ayurveda is holistic medicine, assessing the physiological functioning of the reproductive system, as well as the rest of the body. This assessment includes pathways that are well understood in Eastern Medicine but less so, or not at all, in Western Medicine. Now, western medicine is amazing in its glory… Yet sometimes there is more. Often, this ‘more’ can need a subtle but highly effective shift in order to allow for conception. In addition to the body, Ayurveda assesses the mind and state of emotions, which both can lead to blockages in fertility on their own, let alone coupled with a physiological imbalance.

First Light Ayurveda blends the wisdom of Ayurveda, it’s assessment and recommendations for resolving the imbalances, with intuitive healing and energy work, to work on all aspects of the client. We create and then simply allow the conception. Ayurveda is gentle yet effective, creating more ease and fulfillment, bringing positive “side benefits” rather than negative “side effects”. Wendy is nurturing and wise, facilitating a most enjoyable experience, different than a common fertility specialist, and she is blessed in helping women conceive.

Stay Healthy

The Prevention Program is a home study course that teaches you the principles and most valuable knowledge of Ayurveda, from your own home. Ayurveda is holistic health care, proving itself over thousands of years as most effective in maintaining health and preventing illness. Ayurveda is founder of eastern health care, from which Traditional Chinese Medicine and Acupuncture were born. Western medicine shines at managing critical illness and injury. Ayurveda shines at preventing illness and injury. Additionally, it fosters greater enjoyment and flow in the life, so you can thrive and enjoy all of life.

The Prevention Program is 6 hours of produced video classes, which you can watch on the weekly schedule recommended, or at your own pace. You own the material, so you can review it at anytime. It includes 3 E-books on Ayurveda and health, 50 pages of additional course handouts, and “homework” that will create experiences for best integration of Ayurveda into your life. Also included is meditation instruction for you via Skype, in your own home or office. The course is provided to you by Wendy Arneill, RN, Ayurveda Practitioner, founder & director of First Light Ayurveda and First Light Fertility, and Paul Dugliss, MD, Ayurveda Physician, founder & director of New World Ayurveda.

Take this opportunity to easily bring the healing and loving powers of Ayurveda into your home.
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To your health…

Baby colic

It’s become common that many infants experience some form of colic. Pediatricians today report colic as “sudden, severe, unexplained crying lasting less than 3 hours/day.”1 Of course moms and pediatricians need to be sure there is not another reason for the crying, such as fever, trauma, or other sign of an emergent condition. If there is truly no medical reason for the crying, and the crying persists, it’s a vicious cycle…. the crying leads to worry in mom and to Baby not eating well…which leads to more worry in mom and Baby crying because he’s hungry…which leads to less sleep and yet more concern for mom and even more crying for Baby who is not able to take in the food she needs. Mom often takes on guilt, like she is doing something wrong or her milk is not good enough for Baby, when she is doing everything perfectly. One day of this is plenty, but often the symptoms last for weeks or months, taking a toll on mom, baby and family.

Per contemporary medicine, colic is not well understood, and this fact is common knowledge. Statistics show that colic does go away eventually and therefore is not a major medical concern. However, it is a huge concern for mom and dad of the infants who have unrelieved crying, fussiness, and possibly begin to lose weight when they should be gaining weight.

The medical community suggests colic is due to some combination of the following:

  • Digestive woes, perhaps due to intolerance of cow’s milk protein or lactose
  • Reflux (heartburn due to stomach acid and milk flowing back into the esophagus)
  • An immature digestive system in which the intestinal muscles are often in spasm
  • Air (gas) in the intestinal tract
  • Increased hormone levels that cause stomachaches or a fussy mood
  • Hypersensitivity to a stimulation in the environment (sound, light, etc.)
  • An intense temperament in the newborn period
  • An immature nervous system 2

Common recommendations to try include changing from breast or cow’s milk formulas to soy, adding lactase to formulas, warm baths, and medicines to aid in reflux. Please know that per traditional Ayurveda, all but the warm baths can lead to additional digestive problems, and may only be treating the symptoms rather than the root cause of the problem.

Ayurveda for Baby Colic

Ayurveda understands that there are many reasons for baby colic, and often they are related to the digestive system, but can also be related to emotional peace in the mom and family (hence colic getting worse as mom worries more and loses sleep because of the colic). The digestive system in an infant is immature… it’s natural. The digestive system is functional, but needs support. Ayurveda understands the digestive system is closely related to emotions (have you ever lost your appetite after a traumatic event or tough news?), because we are “digesting life” and can therefore not digest food well, simultaneously.

Things to consider before losing too much sleep over colic:

You are most likely giving lots of love and nurturing to your baby. It’s also important that you don’t overstimulate his or her nervous system with sensory stimulation (television; music that is loud or not truly peaceful; anger, fear or depression in the household; too much movement (taking Baby into public places and out of his/her home environment often). Baby likes to be swaddled, held close to the chest (heart to heart, you can get carriers for this), “shh shh shh shh” peacefully in his or her ear while you hold him, warm baths with a little sesame oil (be careful so the oil doesn’t let your baby slip out of your arms).

If these things don’t improve symptoms, consider contacting an Ayurveda Practitioner specializing in maternal & child holistic health care. From a simple consultation (a phone consult is often enough), you can get specific recommendations for your particular situation. They may include:  a ½ ounce of a small-dose fennel tea at particular times, to help with gas/bloating and reflux; Infant Abhyanga (Ayurvedic oil massage, instructed for parents to give to baby), to help with soothing the nervous system and thus aiding the nerves for digestion; addressing mom’s digestive and nervous system (because Baby always feels what mom feels); or other recommendations. Common results are a happier baby, happier mom, and improved digestion, after simple remedies.

One thing to take note of, is that taking Baby off of milk products (breast milk or cow-based formulas) will only limit their digestive ability in the future. The fact is, milk has received a bad reputation in our culture, yet when taken appropriately (contact First Light Ayurveda or for more on milk and how to take it for optimal results), it has the most ojas (life force) and strengthening power of any food. In fact, organic whole milk and breast milkd is the only food that nourishes all 7 dhatus (tissues of the body) within 24 hours. Of course, do not give whole milk to your infant, but consider alternatives before taking your baby off your breast milk or milk-based formula. Not everyone needs milk in their diet, but our digestion should be good enough to take it without trouble. If not, then our digestion is lacking strength, and the ramifications are that we will not digest other things as well as we can, leading to weaker assimilation of nutrients from our food, and less elimination of toxins in our body. So, it is actually important to strengthen digestion to a point where we can take milk comfortably. Most people (babies included) who believe they have a lactose intolerance or milk allergy are actually dealing with a weak digestion. Few people truly have milk allergies. We want to strengthen the digestion, so we can take all the good from our food and remove all the bad from the food….not ignore the weakness and eat according to it. This will just make the problem worse.

So please, if you or your baby need guidance, contact

Ayurvedic Medicine

As people are seeking greater health and wellness in their lives, Ayurvedic Medicine is a growing trend in health care and lifestyle. But what exactly is Ayurvedic Medicine? When people ask this question, they often get a large range of answers. Or they have had one experience with Ayurveda, such as herbs or meditation or a new diet, and they assume that alone is Ayurveda. The reason for such a span of answers is that Ayurvedic Medicine is an entire system of health care, comprised of endless knowledge of the physical body, in all its intricacy, as well as knowledge of the mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of each one of us. With origins in India, its principles are easily applied in any area of the world, using natural means to bring the body back into its unique and balanced state. It is holistic, whole system,health care.

Within this system of natural health care, there are thousands of modalities to utilize. Common ones include herbal remedies, particular yoga practices, oil massage, and purification techniques (“detoxing” done right). Yet these and other regimes are not used generically for all. Rather, they are carefully selected for an individual’s unique constitution and imbalances. Ayurvedic medicine does not treat generalized symptoms, it treats the particular imbalances that cause the disruptive symptoms. Ayurveda has a distinct means of assessment and works with a different approach to creating health in our bodies than the traditional western approach. Ayurveda recognizes that there are multiple ways in which one symptom (such as painful periods, insomnia, irritable digestion or elimination, depression, or others) may have come about. Thus, each individual needs individualized care to gently overcome his or her health problems.

Yet Ayurveda is so much more than an answer to your health problems…  It gives the gift of maintainingyour optimal health and attaining continued growth & fulfillment in body and mind. Ayurveda is a way of life, a way to greater health and longevity. This is why bits and pieces of Ayurveda always trickle into the lives of even those who intend for just a simple and natural fix to their ailments. Los Angeles and other areas of the country are catching onto this time-tested and effective system of health care and people are realizing they can feel better than ever.

Natural Herbal Remedies

Ayurveda provides a natural means to minimizing or removing many of our current health issues, such as diabetes, infertility, rheumatoid and osteo arthritis, and even the common cold. Of course, the best health care is one which prevents illness and injury. Ayurveda shines in prevention, as it gives simple and natural lifestyle guidelines that simply feel good, while increasing your immunity, decreasing toxin build-up, and replenishing your energy. It offers means to easy and sound sleep, proper digestion and elimination, and healthy purification. If ailments arise, herbs may be used as natural medicine. A carefully selected blend of herbs is generally more effective than a single herb. Arjuna, for instance, is wonderful for the heart, but will be best assimilated when joined with another strong herb and smaller doses of digestive aids such as ginger, cardamom, licorice or fennel. It does take time to reverse major or chronic health issues, but the results yield much longer lasting effects and without uncomfortable or hazardous side effects. Of course, Ayurveda will not replace your doctor’s prescriptions, but it can reverse or minimize your need for them.

Health maintenance and prevention of illness tips are sometimes thought of as “grandma’s recipes.” Try out a few of these over the course of a week and see if they work for you. These are simple but effective for some basic complaints.

  • For trouble falling asleep: Heat one cup of organic whole milk on the stove. Pour into a mug, add a pinch each of cardamom and cinnamon (nutmeg also, if you like). Sip just before bed. Also take a warm bath with sesame or olive oil in it, just be careful not to slip!
  • For bloating after meals: Make a potent fennel tea by adding 1 tsp of freshly ground fennel seeds to 4-6 ounces of hot water. Stir and let steep for a bit before sipping at the end of your meal. You can also steep the whole seeds in boiling water.
  • For early morning awakenings (when you wake up at 3-4 AM, wide awake): If you wake up hot or sweaty, try 1/4 cup of Aloe Juice (whole leaf, from the health food store not Trader Joe’s unfortunately) just before bed. If you wake up but you don’t feel hot in the nights, try 6 ounces of licorice root and fennel seed tea. Just buy the freshly ground powders at health food store and stir into hot water.

Ayurvedic Remedies

Plants hold great power in healing. Whether using natural Eastern or contemporary Western approaches to medicine, plants are the foundation for the efficacy of medications. Herbal medicines are often overlooked as a lesser potency than many western drugs. Fortunately, this is not the truth. The key to successful healing through herbs is to have the appropriate blend of herbs for whatever imbalances have led to the health issue. Three people with high blood pressure may all have different imbalances that caused their symptom. Hence, three different herbal remedies, along with lifestyle guidelines, may be recommended for success in reducing blood pressure. The same is true for treating women’s health concerns such as painful periods, menopause symptoms, or others. If you want to reverse a health issue, try this natural and lasting approach. And if you are currently in good health, remember to keep your health with the Ayurvedic lifestyle.

True Health

The definition of health by western medicine is “the absence of disease”. Great. Truly. But does this mean that everyone without active disease is feeling good, that their days are enjoyable because their bodies are functioning well as they sleep, wake, eat, digest, eliminate, think, communicate, love, work and play?

The Ayurvedic definition of health… He whose doshas (fundamental elements of constitution) are in balance, whose appetite is good, whose dhatus (tissues) are functioning normally, whose malas (waste products) are in balance, and whose mind and senses remain in full bliss, is called a healthy person. ~ Sushrut

Ayurveda understands there are 6 stages of disease and has means to assess them all. Symptoms we may feel in our bodies don’t occur until stage 4 or 5. Ayurveda offers natural medicine to heal the body, whether symptoms are in place or not. As we learn more about our unique constitutions and our particular imbalances, we are further able to prevent uncomfortable symptoms, and often, future disease. The Ayurvedic definition of health accounts not only for absence of disease but also for optimally functioning systems within the body, thus giving greater ease in the daily life and opening doors to greater enjoyment of life.

Herbs as medicine

Traditional medicine, holistic medicine, has thousands of years of proof that nature contains powerful resources to heal. We know that maintaining health can be done with proper sleep, food, exercise, daily routines and the people we choose to include in our lives. Through choice or chance, every person goes through challenging times, which affect the physiology and/or the mind and emotions. Herbal remedies, chosen properly, are paramount in swiftly returning the body and mind to its harmonious state of balance. The key is to know the proper balancing agents and how to utilize them appropriately. When used appropriately for the root cause of the problems, not for general symptoms, herbs are potent medicines that restore true health. Symptoms will vanish as a result, and better yet, other areas of health will be enhanced… Digestion will improve, thus improving your ability to assimilate the good foods you take in; sleep will improve, improving your strength, stamina, and immune system; elimination will balance, releasing toxins in your body and keeping your ojas (healthy essence) within you.

Ayurveda recognizes the power of herbs as medicine. Herbs are not intended for long term use, they are intended for specific healing, after which general guidelines are implemented for maintenance of health and enhancement of life. It’s wonderful that our culture so desires greater health that we can now walk into a grocery store and ask for natural remedies. “What do I take for insomnia? What remedy do you have for sinus congestion? What should I take to relieve my stomach aches?” Certainly there are occasions when one health food store recommendation is the answer to your problem. However, more often, it takes numerous attempts with different products to achieve results, and then you’ve taken lots of things that your body must flush out. Furthermore, Ayurveda understand that there are inherent problems with this way of treating your ailments. First and foremost, treating the symptom itself is rarely the way to resolve the actual problem. And sometimes the actual problem is made worse, giving rise to additional symptoms or side effects. There are often many different reasons why one common symptom exists. Learning the root cause of the symptom is essential, so that the actual imbalance can be corrected, which in turn will resolve the symptom. Better yet, the body will be stronger and better able to grow even healthier and stronger.

Another setback of the common herbal quick-fixes is that most often, one or two single herbs will not be as effective as a perfect blend of herbs. Ayurvedic remedies are individualized to meet the needs of unique imbalances, using one or two primary herbs (Emperors) with additional herbs to enhance assimilation and balance other aspects of the body. Ashwaganda may be strengthening, but it’s also heating and could have malefic effects certain people. Hing helps certain individuals tremendously with digestion, but would cause pain or bloating for others. Shitavari is wonderful for the reproductive system, but not if there’s already much cold or stagnant ama. These herbs may still be taken as medicine, but only when aided by other herbs to balance the heat or the cold or the unctuous nature.

Lastly, taking more supplements/vitamins/herbs than you truly need is not good practice. Anything you take in which you do not need is considered ama (toxins for your body which you must work to eliminate or store and then feel sluggish or foggy from).

Every individual has unique needs to strengthen, purify, and balance. And each individual will have different needs at different times, depending on time of life and circumstances in the life. As you get a taste of what is right for you, you begin to crave (and trust) the most appropriate substances to take in…regardless of what society is currently endorsing as the #1 cure-all.

For optimal health, take your body and mind into your own hands. Seek guidance from a trusted practitioner. We all need teachers and guides to help us, so utilize your resources to get you to an ideal state of health and happiness. Then you will be able to guide others, in whatever gifts you are here to offer. It’s a beautiful circle we have.